I want a Man that wants me for me. All of me.
I want a Man that stands the test of time.
I want a Man that can communicate His needs, wants, desires, feelings, thoughts, and will do so with me, with no fear of me thinking less of Him for being human.
I want a Man that is kind, caring, and compassionate.
I want a man who can understand that I can, and will be the moon and stars to light any and all of His dark nights.
I want a Man that will lead, but is willing to have me by His side; helping Him with anything we may face.
I want a Man who challenges me to be better than I am, to go the distance.
I want a Man that appreciates my talents, gifts, abilities, and encourages me in them.
I want a Man that is able to be my Friend too.
I want a Man that is passionate about life and love, who shows by word and deed I am His woman, whom He is proud of.
I want a Man that will not let me get away with any of my bs, will understand what is in my heart and head; my why-fores (or at least Seek To understand). Who can jolt me out of apathy, and chide me out of a bad mood.
I want a Man that appreciates Nature, Books, Philosophy, and Spirituality.
I want a Man unafraid of hard work, and who is wise with finances.
I want a Man that understands that flaws have beauty too, and is not a perfectionist but wants to better Himself, who wants and helps me to do the same.
I want a Man that is Self-Aware.
I want a Man that has a good sense of humour, and can laugh at himself also.
I want a Man that likes to cuddle, hold hands, share a cuppa, and can enjoy companionable silences.
I want a Man that is a Gentlemen, and a Rogue behind closed doors.
I want a Man that knows what He wants and needs also. One whom will not settle anymore than I will for “less than” what we both deserve to have to be happy Together.
I want a Man that has Vision for the Future, has Dreams, and wants me to be a part of them all. Just as I will Him in mine.
These are listed as Wants. I also know myself well, and I know a lot of these are real needs too. I also do not expect perfection in anyone or anything. I believe that to do your personal best is enough.
I have had a long time to think on these things, and I know that I need a man that Guides me and wants me beside Him come what may. Many Alpha and Dominate males out there will not realise I have a submissive way in and about me, whilst I am a strong willed and minded capable woman. I have no choice but to be so.
A woman alone must be able to take care of herself and her loved ones. I’d hope any Man worth His “salt” would want a woman that can stand on her own, but choose to follow her Mate to hell and back willingly.
I am strong yet fragile. I am what, and who I am with no apologies.
“I ask a lot from others, because it is what I would be willing to give.” ~Unknown